For some reason Charlie Sheen thinks he is winning. It’s one of his catch phrases after all. Sure he’s rich and famous but he’s also fired, and kind of a jerk. Sadly he’s in denial about his seriously deep issues. In my book he’s losing. He’s losing big. He’s a dad and he needs to get it together for the sake of his kids if not for his own sake.

Anyway that wasn’t exactly my point. My point is that winning, in an “optimistic” way, is an option. We can all win at life if we don’t let anyone steal our joy and we respect and understand that each of us is a little awesome part of a great big awesome universe. You can get that job you want, find the love of your life, be a better person, or follow whatever path your heart takes you on as long as your values are in place. In other words, you can win…