There are tons of things that annoy me, as many of you know. However, in the spirit of the season I thought I’d mention some of the things that I thought were actually positive in 2007. Part of the inspiration for this list came from PHX who commented on The Black 1. Oprah – She puts her money where her mouth is. She opened a school for girls in Africa earlier this year and we can’t let controversy overshadow that kind of philanthropy. She is a passionate and a powerful symbol of how hard work can lead to unimaginable success and respect. Plus, as she has proven through stumping for Obama, she’s fearless. 2. Roland G. Fryer – This young black man is changing the face of economics and the way we think about achievement in education in poor African American communities. I had a chance to see him speak a couple of months ago at the Schomburg Center for Research in Black Culture here in NYC and he was riveting. I’m such a groupie. 3. Barack Obama – He’s running for president. He may be the best chance at a significant change that this country will get. I’m ready for change. 4. BlackMaleAppreciation.com – I’ve been thrilled by the amount of inspirational news and information this site has been able to uncover. I put this site on my blogroll when it first started because it was such a great idea, and they are still doing excellent work. 5. Master P – This year Master P started Take a Stand Records along with his son. His label will focus on positive, vulgarity free Hip-Hop, which is revolutionary in its concept. He wants to be part of the solution and I think we should support his efforts. 6. The people that read, comment, and listen to the stuff on this blog. I get about 600 unique visits a day to the blog, I am nearing the 1000 mark in comments, and I get over 14,000 podcast downloads a month. The FatherDad movement is in full swing and I owe it all to those of you out there in cyberspace that continue to support it. This blog transcends race and gender (special thanks to the moms!) in a way that I could have never predicted. 7. House – Once a week this show helps me unwind in a way that no other show can. It’s smart, it’s funny, it’s melodramatic (in a good way). This is how TV is supposed to be. 8. Watching The Waters and the Johnson-McCormick Family – Between these two families seven Haitian children have been adopted over the last few years. Heather and Braydon are the parents of a handsome set of twins. Mrs. Incredible and her husband have welcomed five (yes I said five!) kids into their homes. They aren’t rich and famous, just full of love. They make Brad and Angie look like lightweights. 9. My son – Devin is the inspiration for most of the things that I do. I love him like no other. 10. All the regular everyday dads that simply love fatherhood and everything that comes with it. You guys make me believe that there really is a hope for the nuclear family in general, and the black family specifically. What (or who) inspired, or otherwise had a positive affect on you in 2007?
[Dad] List: Year in Review. I’ll admit that the “nice” list was a little harder for me to come up with than the “naughty” list. But in the end I think I like this one more. Here’s the list is in no particular order:
Your blog inspired me. Last year I was teaching human relations and noticed that the young men in our class got no air time with their issues. Your blog forced me to consider the male perspective. This semester we offered an all male human relations class. It has been a smashing success. I owe it all to you. We will repeat this next year. Because of the demographics of our school, the class contains 38 black teens and one Asian teen.
Great list. I’m excited by the concept of Take A Stand Records. I would really love to see that go somewhere.
Wow. I’ll be back to post when I get over the shock of making the list!
Your blog is most definitely an inspiration. Great list for a great Dad
Wow. Given how much I love this blog and respect this blogger… I have to confess: making it onto this list is definitely on *my* Top Ten List of “positive” experiences of 2007. I’m not being flippant either. Not at all. I actually saw your list last night, was in SHOCK to read #8, and for the past 24 hours I have been thinking about why this is such a huge deal to me. I’ve figured out why, and want to blog about it, but it will require a very long post to explain… and given the pre-Christmas-panic that has suddenly taken root at home (soooo much still to do!!!), and given the pre-Holiday-workload that is currently on my lap at work (soooo much still to do!!!), I don’t have time to post about it now. But—- I’ll be posting about it sometime around New Year’s Day when I have some time to write it all out. I’ll let you know when I post it. In the meantime, Keith, I really have to tell you — not flippantly, but truthfully and honestly: thank you for the sentiment of putting us on your list. It sincerely means a LOT.
Love to you and all the great men out there that you represent, Heather
Well Keith, your blog has also bee an inspiration to me, many of your post have picked me up on down days.
As for folks who inspiried me this year.
Colin Powell (on how he has handled his critisims or the Bush administration, with class & character).
Oprah, because she is into action not talk.
Bll Cosby, because he isn’t afraid to say “If the shoe fits, say ouch and wear it!”
awesome blog man….
That’s a great list. I’m still thinking about mine…I have ten or so more days to figure it out though.
Glad to be able to come over here and see what you’re thinking about though.
Wow great post! My inspirations for 2007…
GOD’s word being the very first. In the last 4 months my family and I have gone from home renters to home owners and it was through GOD’s grace and mercy that it came to be.
My wife and children were another inspiration.
My Pastor/Brother has been a great inspiration.
My fellow bloggers especially Johnathan Harding (Humor for the Soul.com) for challenging me on the development of Me in Me and showing me how to podcast.
My youth group for allowing me to be their mentor and sharing what they think and how they feel every Thursday when we meet.
My elderly neighbor Mr. Jones for the many stories and laughs he gave me when I was feeling down as well as the time we shared watching boxing PPV’s.
My church family for letting me be me.
Even though I never knew him…my father has been a great inspiration because what he didn’t give to me made me want to be what he wasn’t…an active father in my children’s life.
There is so much more but I will podcast that before 2007 is over.
Be blessed & Merry Christmas
This is my 1st time visiting this blog, and I am already a fan! I am a native Pennsylvanian who has lived in Europe for over 30 years. You are in a league with my own father, who put God and family before all else. I look forward to coming back for many a cyber-visit in 2008, and wish you and your family much health, prosperity and happiness in the coming weeks and months.
I see there is so many topics to cover in this coming year “But” starting with the upcoming presidental election from what I can see going on in the world and in our country I feel we (americans) need new leadership NOT experience, not the same ol’ group running the government. Obama seems to be the man for me.