1. Build a Personal Medical File
- Collect every copy of each medical procedure and test result, such as biopsy reports, blood tests, MRIs, bone scans, and more.
- You have the right to obtain these copies, which will help you track your condition independently of any single doctor’s records.
- BRING THIS FILE TO EVERY APPOINTMENT>
2. Seek a Second Opinion on Biopsy Results
- Request that the biopsy slides or core samples be reviewed at another institution, not just by a different doctor at the same facility.
3. Include a Free PSA Test
- When having your blood work done initially, ask specifically to include a Free PSA test.
4. Pretest Guidelines for Untreated Patients
- Abstain from sexual activity for at least 72 hours before a PSA blood test to avoid skewed results.
- Also, request a C-Reactive Protein (CRP) test alongside each PSA test. A high CRP may indicate infection that can affect PSA levels. Interpreting the two tests together can help explain any fluctuations in your PSA.
- Keep in mind that PSA is not a perfect indicator of prostate cancer growth. However, in the absence of better non-invasive alternatives, it remains a useful (though imperfect) tool.
5. Be Your Own Advocate
- Educate yourself by joining prostate cancer support groups and speaking with survivors.
- Avoid handing over all decision-making to the first doctor you meet; you are the one who will have to live with any potential side effects of a chosen treatment.
6. Beware of Simplistic “Cure” Claims
- If a doctor easily claims they can cure your prostate cancer, proceed with caution.
- Be aware that many institutions define “cure” as surviving at least one year post-procedure, even though manyprostate cancer patients can live longer than a year without any treatment—especially if the cancer is slow-growing.
7. Understand Recurrence Risks
- After careful consideration and treatment, there is still a high possibility of recurrence, often many years down the line.
- Only about 20% of patients avoid recurrence entirely; many simply pass away from other causes.
8. Aim for a Long-Term Stalemate
- Since there is no 100% definitive cure, treatment often focuses on slowing down or containing the disease long enough to live a full life—ideally dying from something other than prostate cancer.
9. Recognize Current Technology Limits
- We do not yet have machines capable of pinpointing microscopic prostate cancer cells.
- A biopsy is considered definitive but remains both invasive and somewhat random, leaving the possibility of false negatives.
Three Additional Thoughts
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Make No Decisions Until You Feel Well-Informed
- Take the time you need to fully understand your diagnosis and options.
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Ask Questions About Your Cancer
- Don’t assume your doctor will tell you everything. You often need to ask for information—about side effects, recovery, and long-term outlook.
- Remember that treatments can improve survival but may also cause incontinence, impotence, or bowel issues because of the prostate’s proximity to vital nerves and organs.
- Understand the difference between seeking a cure versus undergoing treatment that may prolong life while managing side effects.
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Talk with Others at a Prostate Cancer Support Group
- Hearing real stories can help put your worries into perspective.
- Many men are surprised and uneasy when doctors offer multiple treatment options and leave the final decision to the patient. Ultimately, you must decide which path is right for you.